As I furthered my research I also came across what are typically are the Top 10 least popular and actually destructive conversational topics that take place on a first date. In my last entry, I gave suggestions on “what to” and “what not” to say. Here, all I have to tell you is: don’t even go here with the following! Every one of these top 10 are bound to get you into some sort of debate, freak the guy out or completely turn him off, and the same can apply to you! Even if you find that you are avoiding these topics nicely, but he keeps trying to reel you into one of them, just politely say: “I’m sorry, I just don’t like to get into that kind of subject on a first date....please though, tell me more about the last places you traveled”.
Here are those topics you should avoid and keep him away from as well:
1. Politics
2. Other dates
3. Past relationships
4. Science fiction
5. Religion
6. Celebrities
7. Science
8. Antiques
9. Money
10. History
Remember, you guys are just at the get-to-know-you-better phase. Save the deep conversations for later when you DO know each other better…believe me, who you voted for in the last election, what you did on other dates and the latest celebrity gossip can all wait. If you guys hit it off, you have all the time in the world to talk about these issues. If you DON’T hit it off, at least you just had a night of easy conversation by staying on the top 10 MOST popular topics.
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Tuesday, December 8, 2009
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